I'm co-authoring a CS paper with another student. While we both did equal lab work, I wrote about 90% of the paper and did most of the literature review since I’m more fluent in English and generally better at writing. My co-author suggested we list ourselves as equal contributors, but her name would come first alphabetically. To recognize my contributions, she suggested listing my name first instead.
On one hand, I’d like to be first author due to the significant writing contribution, but on the other hand, I want to ensure her work is recognized, as she put in a lot of effort as well.
Would listing ourselves as equal contributors but with my name first be a fair compromise, or should I insist on sole first authorship? How much does this distinction matter for my academic career? I’d appreciate your thoughts.