It is important to know that I have requested about 7/8 letters per professors ( 3 total ). I have told them that I was conscious that it was a lot of letters to write so I was content with a general letter for most of the schools I wanted to get in and maybe one letter that was a bit more personalized for the school they felt I would have the highest chances of admission.
The nearest deadline is 10 days away. I have asked about this in late January and I haven't gotten anything yet.
I asked for an update in early March and the profs were either working on it or were being bottlenecked by the administration. But since then I got nothing.
The deadlines are approaching quickly and I hope you understand how stressed I feel about this. Would it be too petty to ask for a second update?
I need at least 3 letters, and I have only asked to 4 professors, one of which didn't answer so I think he doesn't want to write me one (for a reason I ignore). I may have made a mistake and should've asked more professors, that's on me. The point is I don't want to upset because if at least one of them decides that I am too annoying I can already cross half of the schools I wanted off the list.