Can a person who doesn't like to talk much still become a good lecturer/academician? Do you have any experience like this or know anyone like this?

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    Why not? Just need to talk enough in the class.
    – SmallChess
    Nov 13, 2015 at 11:38
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    The best lecturer I had fell into an almost catatonic state during class break, sat down at his desk, and gave as short answers as possible if people tried to engage him into a chat. We all learned not to try to. He is reportedly the happiest when alone, tending to his roses. While lecturing, he was a dervish and extremely efficient, constantly engaging and challenging our entire class in rather Socratic ways. By 25, he had seminal papers in 4 or 5 different sub disciplines [sic], & would soon receive the most important prize in his field outside the Nobel (...and then retire from research). Nov 13, 2015 at 11:52
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    I am a rather un-social person, but I still like (and hope to be reasonably good at) giving lectures and doing classes. Different skills.
    – xLeitix
    Nov 13, 2015 at 14:35
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    I had an astronomy lecturer who would stand extremely close to the blackboard and talk very quietly, but only when in a large auditorium. I later had him in a more advanced class in astronomy in a small auditorium, more or less a wide but shallow class room. Totally different person, now he could fill the room with his personality. It takes all sorts, just try to work to your strengths.
    – Bent
    Nov 13, 2015 at 15:02
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    "Can a person who doesn't like to talk much" How do you know he/she "doesn't like to talk"? Talking abilities are quite dependent on the audience, and the alloted time (someone who os not good at prompt reply on the floor can be great on a chair) Nov 13, 2015 at 17:13

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Absolutely, a person who's not naturally inclined to be a speaker can become a good lecturer and scientist. One of my best professors, actually, was a person with such inclinations. Finding that speaking was not something that he was good at, he turned it into an object of study and began collecting heuristics about what made a good and effective talk. By studiously applying these heuristics to his own teaching and professional communication, he could at least ensure that his talks did not fail on any identifiable dimension.

Talks need to do a lot of different things at once: holding attention, identifying key salients, speaking at different levels to different parts of the audience, providing "breadcrumbs", etc. Because of this, it often turns out that it's much less important to do any aspect brilliantly than to make sure that no aspect has been neglected. This professor might not have been a brilliant and exciting comedian, like some who are natural lecturers, but he often gave better lecturers than the naturals. The more natural lecturers were often simply less consistent: following their enjoyment and intuition produced brilliance in some aspects and weaknesses in others, while his stolid application of heuristics ensured an across-the-board solidity of presentation.

In short: ultimately, it's not a matter of talent but of choices for how to invest in acquiring skills.

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    Thank you for the tips! Especially this one: "it's much less important to do any aspect brilliantly than to make sure that no aspect has been neglected".
    – kate
    Nov 14, 2015 at 5:54
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    The method he used would be useful for generations of lecturers!
    – Ángel
    Nov 14, 2015 at 23:25

I used to be INCREDIBLY shy as a child / teen / young adult. I hated public speaking and did anything that I could to avoid it.

Mid 20s I ended up unemployed and was told by a family member that you don't even need to interview to be a substitute teacher, you just sign up, get a background check, and start getting work. Desperately needing money, I went for it. And they were right, I started getting work right away.

It was stressful at times but it helped me get out of my shell a lot. And not just get out of my shell, but plan and execute strategies to keep my "audience" (the kids) engaged. Because let me tell you something about teaching elementary kids... you either take command and keep the kids engaged, or you spend the whole day dealing with discipline issues instead of teaching, which is the most frustrating thing in the world. It was a trial by fire, so to speak, and I figured it out in time.

I grew to love it (went back and got a teaching degree and teach elementary computers now) but moreso I found that A. I was no longer terrified by public speaking and B. I actually kind of liked it.

So I started signing up to do presentations at various video game conferences / etc. Now I was presenting for adults but honestly... it's not that different from teaching elementary classes. Make a plan that covers the entire time period you're going to be up there. Have alternatives if your plan isn't working. Keep the audience engaged (I always plan "activities" for the audience so it isn't just me / my partners up there talking.) The vast majority of my anxieties used to come from "what if I flop in front of a crowd" and although that is always possible, good planning and audience engagement goes a long way towards minimizing that risk.

Not sure if this helps you since I don't teach adults, but I've thought about moving in that direction sometimes to pick up some extra work, like teaching night classes or whatever, and while the before-elementary-teaching me would never have even dreamed of trying to teach college classes, now it's like yeah, why not? Current me is more than prepared for that challenge.

I'm still actually somewhat shy, and at parties and stuff I'll often end up just kind of standing near the outside of a circle and listening without saying much. But now I have the skills and experience to public speak, and I feel pretty solid about doing it. Recently my 5+ year long girlfriend came to assist me for an hour long presentation (complete with activities) at a video game conference with a crowd of around 100 people and despite being in an intimate relationship with me for years and seeing how I interact with people in other situations, afterwards she told me she was shocked at how well I commanded the thing... detailed planning, speaking loud and clear, energetically running around the room, actively engaging the audience, making people laugh, etc. Apparently I become a "different person" when I'm in control of a public presentation as opposed to being just another face in a crowd.

So yeah, not sure this totally answers your question, but you can definitely go from scared, not so great public speaker to feeling generally in control and able to take command of the situation and do a great job. And though I doubt you want to start substitute teaching elementary kids, there are probably other paths too. Just getting the practice helps.

This isn't to say I don't sometimes get nervous about it though. I think some level of nerves is pretty normal.

  • Yes, that's so me. I'm kinda shy in social group settings especially if I don't know everybody well, but through TAing I've come to really like teaching and I'm told by my audience that I do a good job of it. Nov 13, 2015 at 21:57
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    Thank you for sharing your exciting experience! It's good to know although at the beginning some might feel "forced"/uncomfortable in teaching but eventually become a great speaker. So I guess, "don't worry, just jump into the teaching job, it's scary but eventually things work out well.."
    – kate
    Nov 14, 2015 at 5:58
  • I don't know if it automatically works out that way! Some teachers I know gave up fast because they just couldn't manage it. I'd say that is more over the discipline than the public speaking but as I said above those two are very related. Basically, at some point you need to step up and take control. Not day one, it is a learned skill, but... eventually. If you can do that, then you'll be alright. Nov 18, 2015 at 16:12
  • Thank you for your encouragement. Your story is very admirable and inspiring.
    – kate
    Nov 21, 2015 at 10:48
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    @vonbrand Probably true but I teach computers which I find a bit easier than classroom teaching in a lot of ways (and tougher in a few ways I didn't anticipate.) Still, it has challenges. For instance apparently my 5th grade class managed to pick up the bad habit over break of nearly the entire class yelling OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH REKT! whenever anyone slightly disagrees with each other now. That's going to have to end ASAP. Jan 6, 2016 at 16:12

Yes, I have known several. They may be a better "lecturer" because they will use other teaching techniques than lecturing which are more effective because they lead to active learning.

  • Effective things than lecturing. Thanks for that idea!
    – kate
    Nov 14, 2015 at 5:59

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