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I'm applying to graduate school and there is a professor at my home university I am interested in working with. As a bit of background, I have been doing undergraduate research with this professor for about a year now and he seems to like me (though maybe he's nice to everyone. I can't be certain). My research under him has been going well as hes told me I've been doing good work. In fact, he uses exclamation marks sometimes, which I find to be odd. Fast forwarding a bit, I've recently wrapped up the project. Given my academic history with him, if he was interested in working with me, would he ask me to be his student (sorry if this comes off as having an inflated ego, I don't have one.) All in all, I'm not sure how to proceed in asking him.

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Just ask. There is nothing to lose. Many of us would be hesitant to ask a student, realizing that there are advantages to moving on and coming in contact with different faculty and their ideas. He might even suggest that you move on, actually, and don't take that as a negative.

If that happens, ask for his advice on your next steps. And try to keep in touch with him over the next years. An email every year might be welcome if you are progressing nicely.

These things are best done in person if that is an option.

But think about whether this prof (the easy option) or moving on is the best option for your future.

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  • Your right, I should should ask. Unfortunately, I cannot do this in-person due to Covid. However, would it be appropriate to ask for a Skype meeting to "discuss post-graduation plans?" My primary reason to work with him is he is one of the leaders in the field I want to pursue my graduate degree in. Additionally, he has a style of mentoring I like. – Motig5753 Jun 9 at 22:20
  • Sure, any means will do if the best isn't available. But "can we meet somehow, Skype or otherwise", is a bit better than being too specific. Note, of course, that depending on where you are an individual professor may have little influence on your actual admission. Committees are used in the US and a full application is required. – Buffy Jun 9 at 22:24
  • These comments help a lot as I'm still quite intimidated by professors. To your remark, I am still in the US and understand admission is not guaranteed even with an advisor chosen. – Motig5753 Jun 10 at 17:08
  • As a quick update, I have a virtual meeting with my undergraduate research advisor. I was curious what type of questions should I expect. Will he want to go over grades, research, and academic interests? I'm worried hes going to have tough questions (whatever they may be). – Motig5753 Jun 11 at 18:26
  • Probably all that and more. Long term goals both for schooling and thereafter. But if this is the same person as in your question, he probably already knows much of it. And you don't want or need to overly commit to any research ideas. His job is to give you some guidance in this. – Buffy Jun 11 at 18:31
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The formalities of admission depend from geography to geography, and institution to institution.

However, it is most emphatically up to you to take the initiative to indicate interest and spur exploration of whether this would make sense. I would have thought it entitled, arrogant, and forward as a faculty member to indicate to a student, even a close collaborator, unsolicited, that I would be happy to be their advisor!

The most I would have felt comfortable is suggesting to a student that I'd be delighted to discuss their future plans with them if they'd like. And I'd probably assume the best I could do for them is help them navigate their choices of graduate school and introduce them to my collegues elsewhere.

Good luck. And as others have said, be open to the idea that the best for you might be to retain this collaborative relationship informally and continue your studies elsewhere.

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