I am doing a PhD in the US. I am in my mid-twenties and will graduate next spring. My advisor was very good and nice to me. He invited me to have dinner at his home many times and then I met his daughter. I did not realize at the beginning but she told me she had a crush on me. I have known her for some years now. She is above the age of consent.
I went to a party last week and had an extra couple of beers and I could not resist her. I am here alone and had not been with a woman in two years until then.
Now she wants to start a relationship with me and is threatening to tell her father, who is my PhD advisor, that I seduced her if I do not agree.
This is a very difficult situation for me because I do not want my advisor to think I took advantage of his daughter and the trust he has in me.
Also, I do not have time for a relationship. I just want to finish writing my thesis and then graduate.
Aside from those issues, I would love to date that girl: she is cute and hot. In normal circumstances, for me it is extremely difficult to get a girl. I am like Leonard from the Big Bang Theory TV show.
I do not know what to do. I just want to graduate and go home. But she is threatening me.
What should I do? What should I tell my advisor? I do not want him to feel betrayed and that I took advantage of his daughter. She is the one that came to me because under normal circumstances I cannot get a girl. But also I do not want her reputation to be damaged.
I tried explaining that to her but she told me I got sex and I want to get away with it. I am afraid and worried.
Some additional information: There is no way I could have seduced her. I am not good with women.
I do not know what happened. As I can remember, I had very few interactions with her. Never shared anything but a few encounters in social meetings. That is all. And then she tells me she has feelings for me. I did nothing to get into that situation. I was invited to a party and then she appeared. I had a couple of extra beers and she offered to take me home and there she jumped over me and kissed me and I could not resist. I had been a very long time without sex.
I am very worried and scared.