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I feel awkward addressing myself as Dr. X or Prof X. I know that this is common practice (e.g. in emails, letters, etc..). In emails, I prefer to just use my initials or first name. Is this a common experience (i.e. not wanting to be addressed as Dr. or Professor)?

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the only people who ever address me as "Dr. X" are undergraduates or spammers. –  Suresh Feb 27 '13 at 23:38
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PhD comics has an analysis of the situation. –  Davidmh Jul 10 at 11:26

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Use whatever you feel comfortable with. That said, you should also tailor it to the type of correspondence when necessary. A formal letter should include a formal address for yourself, and less formal can be more or less whatever you'd like. In dealing with students, I generally sign school related emails as "Dr. G.," (with just the first letter of my last name) but I've also taught classes where I've gone by my first name exclusively, and let the students decide how to address me, after telling them it is fine with me if they use my first name. More formal student correspondence (e.g., if I'm cc'ing another instructor, or if the matter involves the administration) gets my full last name, and correspondence to colleagues is almost always my first name.

I also have a signature block, that includes my title, full name, email address and (sometimes) my telephone number.

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This answer describes exactly the way I handle this issue. –  Ben Norris Feb 28 '13 at 2:00

There seems to be two questions/issues here.

A lot of people I know do not use Dr/Prof/PhD when referring to themselves and in email signatures. I would say that this is quite common and perfectly acceptable.

The final statement you make is "not wanting to be addressed as Dr. or Professor." I think this is quite a bit rarer. I know a lot of people who tell students that they can call them by first name or Dr, or whatever they are comfortable with. I also know people who say "please call me by by first name". I don't know anyone who ever says "please don't call me Dr. or Professor." I would go so far as to say that demanding someone not use an honorific, or being offended when they do, is uncommon and not proper.

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I've been using my initials as the "sign-off" for my emails as long as I've had my email account. The difference between a formal email and an informal one is whether or not I include the "name block" or if I leave it out, which greeting I use ("Dear Prof. X" or "Dear Y"), and which valediction I use ("Sincerely" versus "Thanks" or "Cheers" or the like).

Normally, I don't know many people who sign their full names to an email. For an official letter, however, your address should be your full name, unless you know the recipient well enough to be on a first name basis with them. (And even then you might still opt for the full name!)

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Similarly, I go by my first name, except in formal/legal contexts and when signing correspondence to people who don't know me, and then I use my full name with no honorific (like "Dr." or "Prof."). In particular, I introduce myself to students using my first name. This informality is nearly universal in computer science, and not just in the US. –  JeffE Feb 28 '13 at 0:30
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@JeffE: re universality: except for German speaking space (DE, AT, CH) and Central/Eastern Europe (eastwards from Germany) where the customs are much more formal. –  walkmanyi Feb 28 '13 at 9:19
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There's definitely a difference. I work in an institute with very relaxed standards, compared to the German norm, and undergraduates still call me "Professor." –  aeismail Feb 28 '13 at 21:12
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@JeffE: Well, that's right, in an undergraduate student vs. a professor situation, titles are used, but not among colleagues, most of the time not even between PhD. student and a supervisor. But those same professors would use all their titles as a part of their name in their e-mail address and in their signature blobs, as well as in official non-academic communication (e.g., in correspondence with a city hall, or a tax office). It gets quickly pretty ridiculous especially when the person holds two doctorates, or such. It never goes without a question. –  walkmanyi Feb 28 '13 at 22:15
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@JeffE: I think what you experienced in Germany/Austria was that PhD students call their supervisor by first name, which is indeed very common. However, notice that the system in the German speaking countries is quite different. A Doktorand-position is considered as your first academic "profession", since you get a reasonable salary and often you do not have to take courses anymore. So your standing is a bit higher compared to the US system. –  A.Schulz Mar 1 '13 at 7:46

I think that it depends on type of email or letter you are writing.

When you are writing an official email, it is better to use your initial as Dr., but when you are writing to a friend I prefer not to use Dr. or Prof.. However, It all depends on the person. Some people prefer to be called Professor Doctor Name Surname even by their close friends and some other are nicer and using their given name is sufficient for them.

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